Emotional disconnection from the person you love and care about most can feel frustrating, lonely, and hopeless. You've tried and tried to make things better in hopes of returning to the love, sense of value, and feelings of happiness you used to experience together, but you just can't seem to get back to that place.  Now it seems like you're both set off by the smallest things-- almost to the point of not being able to stand being around each other. This certainly isn't what you thought married life was going to be like when you made the commitment to be together "'til death do you part." Words that were once expressed wholeheartedly with such enthusiasm may no longer reflect the cry of your heart.